The Benefit of The Doubt or The Enabler

The former, you can and should give to people.

Someone lied to you once, apologized, you gave them the BOTD and moved on, then they lied to you again, and they were so sorry for that, you gave out BOTD #2. And guess what, they did it for the third time. 

It's critical here that you take a moment and think for yourself, should BOTD #3 be given?

You can, but then your forgivingness became the latter, The Enabler. 

You can ask for things you want, but you also have to accept the fact that you may not get it.

Powerful.

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